LONG POST ALERT ‼️ But if you want to get to know us better I promise it's worth the read 🥰
Many Redditor's and content creators reach out to us asking about how we got started on Reddit and how we have managed our success with the platform. In fact, many of you reading this post right now came from Reddit! As a milestone this month we hit 4 mil karma and 500k followers. We are so very proud of that and appreciate you all for getting us to that milestone! Reddit can also be an interesting place, but we appreciate a platform that still allows NSFW content. *RIP Tumblr* 💀 Why bring all of this up? Well, today we had a post come down with an interesting comment from the moderator:
“Yet another re-post from an obvious OnlyFans creator.”
As a moderator of a handful of subreddits ourselves, we don't want to be part of or participate in a subreddit that doesn't want us because we are OF sellers; doesn't matter the size or popularity of that subreddit. As such, we responded with the following:
YDC: "Do you not want OF creators posting in your subreddit? Furthermore, do you have a no re-post rule? This post was from 30 days ago so we did a re-post. Some subreddits have a no re-post before 30 days and others 60 days rule. We see no such rule listed in your "Community Info" or the "About" sections of your subreddit, but if you simply don’t want us posting in your subreddit, we will gracefully bow out…"
The moderator wrote us back with a pretty negative attitude towards content creators (you can see that below), but furthermore presented the question to us of, "Why is posting in this sub important to you?" It's actually a great question and as such we really started thinking about it.
Below is our response. I hope this interaction gives you some insight into who we are as people. So, D and I are cheers-ing to this with a glass of bubbles. Feel free to let us know your thoughts below! XOXO Goodnight 🥂 ~BG & D
MOD Question: "Just curious - why is posting in this sub important to you?"
YDC Response: "That is a great question. We have been posting in this subreddit for almost 3 years now. When we get together with other couples, singles and content creators its authentic and real. We never make content just to make content. Sometimes we are talking to the people we collaborate with for months or even a year in one case before we ever get together. We do this so that when we finally do meeet up in person it's so natural, comfortable and the sexual chemistry is strong, which really comes out in our content. This subreddit is specifically about swinging and for many people that is a goal or desire in their current relationship or for future relationships. Thru our content we show what is possible in a swinging or threesome scenario when everyone is authentically enjoying themselves and are all on the same page and comfortable with each other. We are very proud of that! Compared to other subreddits that may have a theme of masturbation or blowjobs, this subreddit is entirely about swapping and enjoying other people outside of a normal monogamous relationship. Our number 1 goal with our OnlyFans account is to create a safe space for others to explore their sexuality and desires and we do that by utilizing subreddits such as yours."
YDC Question 1: "Do you not want OF creators posting in your subreddit?"
Mod Response: "Not really, no. They've basically taken over the sub and we're kind of sick of it. People are really sick of the constant OnlyFans promos and users. We do not want to be yet another boring OnlyFans creator sub."
YDC Response: "I totally understand that. I also mod a handful of subs and the blatant promotion is not okay. It's a shame that a large majority of content creator/sellers are leaving a bad taste in everyone's mouth by only caring about how much money they make, but conversely there are Redditor's that are creator/sellers who put out amazing content and wish to cultivate community like we do. In fact, I did a search on your subreddit for the top posts of all time. The owner's of these posts are all content creators/sellers. OF Content creators put out some of the best content on Reddit along with non-sellers whom also put out amazing content and there is plenty of room for everyone. We receive messages from couples daily thanking us for being bold enough to post our videos saying, "You have inspired us to try XYZ" or "You have taught us that we can be more outgoing and explorative, etc". That should not be pushed aside simply because we have an OnlyFans. People want human connection and that is our goal, which clearly translates through our content when we post across different subreddits. We are advocates for a lifestyle wherein we promote how to achieve said lifestyle and/or relationships where most people don't even know where to start or feel too afraid to explore because they have been told it's bad and wrong their whole lives.
There are a handful of subreddits in the past year that have completely steered away from OF content creators and those subreddits are no longer what they were. Redditors that are on the platform who are just there to view porn and not purchase from OF content creators have stated that fact. There needs to be a balance. I understand the frustration, but please don't cut out a whole population of people simply because of the fact that they are sellers with OnlyFans accounts. Do make your rules more stringent to cut out the awful sellers that are contributing to the deterioration of the subreddit."
YDC Question 2: "Second, do you have a repost rule?"
MOD Response: "Yes, don't repost old content."
YDC Response: "Continuing from the paragraph above, if you don’t want spammy users (those awful sellers that I mentioned earlier that are ruining the experience for everyone), then make specific and clear-cut rules so that they can’t post. Implement bots that take down reposts so you as a mod don't even have to manage it. The subreddits that we mod have rules explicitly laying out the do's and don'ts for posting. For example: re-posts are fine after 30 days. Or don't repost the top 10 posts of the month. You may know in your mind that you don't want re-posts, but if your rules don't clearly and definitively state that in the "about", "rule" and "community info" sections then people are going to go ahead and do the things you don't want them to do like re-post. Then when you take content down or ban Redditors for an invisible and arbitrary rule, it is very disconcerting.
But, at the end of the day this is your subreddit and you are welcome to do as you please. Thank you for responding and allowing open communication...
Warmest regards,
YourDreamCouple
Even though this is our second video we are releasing with @seeseebee (the first was our backseat blow job), this was technically our first filming session together!
Just a little prelude to filming: Chelsea and I hit it off straight away on our video chats with each other so by the time we actually saw each other in person it was like seeing an old friend you haven’t seen in forever! We had fun being girls and figuring out our outfits. Then we jumped on the bed and snapped some cute pics together, but they quickly turned in to D joining us.
There was so much licking, sucking, fucking, position changes that I couldn’t possibly put it all in to text. Suffice it to say we all enjoyed every aspect of what each other has to offer. We hope you enjoy watching the fun unfold ❤️🔥. In fact, feel free to either DM me a picture of how this made you feel or write me a massage describing it in words. I got so hot reading your messages and seeing your hard cocks and wet pussy’s! Night luvah’s! ~Baby Girl
Maybe its because I have been away and busy all day doing my boss babe thing while D holds down the fort at home (most of you who have been with me a while know how much that turns me on), but I’m feeling extra shmoopsy poopsie and sentimental on this Valentine’s Day evening. This dude loves with a ferocity I have never encountered before and I’m so honored that he chose me 🥰. I wish the same kind of love for all of you too. Night my sexy bitches! Xo ~Baby Girl
Late Night Fix - I’ve been so wet and squirty (it’s a word dammit!) lately. I went back thru our vault wanting to watch videos with me gushing in them. This one is one of my favs. I soaked D along with the entire couch! This is also one of the first times that I used his cock to make myself squirt. Enjoy 💦 ~BG
I just finished up this hot sexting session which left my pussy currently dripping with the creamiest cum. The subscriber wanted to talk about threesomes, specifically FFM. We talked about spit roasting, me being fucked while I fuck another woman with my strap on, and then using his cock to make myself squirt for her to lick up. Here’s the kicker, the subscriber did not know that we literally just filmed all of this with @seeseebee last month. Currently we have only released the backseat blow job video but later this week we release video #2. I wanted to share this teaser with you as this is from our 4th time with Chelsea. I use D’s cock to make myself squirt all over her face and in her mouth. I then hopped off and made her clean his cock. God I love being a Dom with D!! I hope you enjoy and thank you again to the subscriber who left me so horny tonight! 😈 ~BG
It’s been a HAWT minute since I’ve done a car play video! This was right after my last laser hair removal appointment last week and I was sooooo horny! It must have been the b l o o d flow to the skin around the area from the lasers. OR it could have been the fact that D worked my pussy so good that morning and I was craving more 🤔👏🏼. Either way I was ready to play! Xo ~Baby Girl
Word of the day for you on this Monday and Valentine’s Eve is Maudlin: tearfully or weakly emotional; foolishly sentimental.
Sentence: This is the maudlin story of a girl that loves love but hates Valentine’s Day.
Try to use it in a sentence today. I’m a word nerd and I’m going to start sharing that with you all! ~BG
Late Night Fix - The first time I made myself squirt solo 💦 I was so excited! And oh if only this purple dildo could speak...the stories it would tell! D has been pegged with this dildo but that is a story for another night 😏 ~Baby Girl
Hope you all had a great Sunday and that your team won today! I didn’t watch a lick of TV today so I have no clue who won. Or what the best commercial was. In fact I only found out this morning they Rihanna was the half time show 🤷🏻♀️. So tell me, which team did you root for, what was your favorite commercial and did you like the halftime show. Should I YouTube the commercials? ~BG & D
Going to post some throwback Super Bowl pictures for you to enjoy today...would you lift up my jersey and cum on my tits during half time? D's done it a few times now including giving me a load in my panties. I think that is one of our biggest kinks, when we are hosting big parties we always like to sneak off and cum together but I love wearing his cum around. I wonder if anyone can smell the sex on me?? It makes me feel so naughty and turned on that I need to fuck an hour later 😈 ~BG
Slutty Sultry Sexy Sinful Super Sunday! Maybe there’s a Silly in there too. Who actually cares about a football victory… 🏆 Alliteration for the win 🏆 ~BG
Late Night Fix - I was snapping cute pics in this yellow sweater and D came in and laid on the bed next to me as I was taking some pussy shots. He was enjoying the view and giving me ALL the eyes 👀. He said, “You know what would be hot? If you just sat on my cock and grind your pussy back and forth until I cum!” Well I couldn’t help but jack his cock too because I love feeling it pulsate in my hands right as he’s exploding! Mmmmm yummy 🤤 Enjoy this fun little ride Loves. Naughty I mean nighty night 🔥 ~Baby Girl
Saturday self play! It’s been a hot minute since I have played with myself in the car so I filmed a super hot little solo sesh the other day for you 💝. I’m dropping this on Monday though becuase for now we have some 🏈 to get to! Xoxo ~Baby Girl
PS: I actually DGAF about football and don’t even know who is playing in the Super Bowl this weekend. But I have some sexy football themed pics and vids to share with you regardless. But like…don’t message me about football. I won’t be able to talk to you about it lmao!
Yesterday I mentioned our dynamic with Daddy as my Dom and the complete trust I have in him to allow him to be that role for me. This little video is another testimony to what it means to be a Dom. Domming is not strictly about physical exertion over another human in a sexual manner. If you are doing it correctly, it’s far more sophisticated than that. There is an elegance in the art of Domming for D as evident in this video. Seduction plays an insanely instrumental role in how D Dom’s me. He knows as a mom of 3 and a busy businesswoman/entrepreneur (we own and operate multiple businesses, including this one), I have to make a million decisions a day. Everyone needs me all the time. The demands on my time are immense. As such, sometimes when it comes time to be intimate with D I need to be pulled out of that frame of mind. My walls are up and I am in production mode so D has to flip my internal switch from operating from my more masculine “get shit done” mindset to my submissive divine feminine mindset. The divine feminine frame of mind is where I can turn off the stressors, put down the weight of the burdens, and relinquish control of myself to D. I don’t want to have to think. I don’t want to have to make decisions. I just want to feel and give in to his demands. As you see in this video, D seduces me so beautifully as he helps me slip into that submissive role by the act of putting on my collar, claiming me as his and putting me in my place. It’s a stunning dance really between the seduction of the mind/body and the dominance and control over the mind/body. Anyhow, enjoy watching D work and have sweet sweet dreams 💖 ~BG
Late Night Fix - Here is a great example of what D and I do all day long to tease and edge each other. This is a series of little videos we filmed throughout the day, our last session ending in the big “O” for both of us. For some strange reason, my phone started to record the last video in slo-mo, which looked hot but sounds ridiculous so I sped it up to an almost normal speed and sound. I didn’t want to mute it and keep it in slo-mo because our moans and groans are part of what makes it so hot. But it was ridiculous to hear us sounding like cartoon characters 😜 ~BG
It wasn’t until I met D and felt safe enough to relinquish control to him that I realized just how important real trust in a relationship is. D is my Dom because I trust him: mind/body/soul. This is not something to be taken lightly and I feel a lot of “Dom’s” miss this very important step of the process. D didn’t just appear in my life and start demanding things of me. He nurtured my sexual side slowly and patiently, allowing my inner goddess to come to maturity on her own terms and timeframe. That is how he created trust in me. Then and only then was I able to let go completely of the control I she always clung on to and let my divine feminine energy take over completely. It’s a beautiful gift and I wish it for all of you! Xo and goodnight! ~BG
ps…this video releases next week!
